Questions? We’ve Got You.
We get it — choosing where to start can feel big.
Here are the most common questions people ask before beginning their EyeAm9 journey. If you don’t see yours here, you can always reach out below.
Skool — Ongoing Support That Grows With You
Live sessions, real community, consistent momentum.
Questions? We’ve Got You.
Skool is a private, virtual community space designed for couples doing real relationship repair work. Each Skool community focuses on a specific issue — like communication problems, intimacy disconnection, or infidelity recovery — and provides weekly live sessions, guided support, Friday check-ins, and shared reflection.
[Why We Fight So Damn Much] – for couples navigating communication issues, emotional disconnection, and everyday relationship tension
(This is our Conflict Repair community)[Sex Stopped. Resentment Started. It Got Complicated.] – for couples dealing with mismatched desire, sexual disconnection, or physical and emotional distance
(This is our Intimacy Repair community)[They Cheated. You Stayed. Now What?] – for couples working to rebuild after betrayal, infidelity, or emotional disloyalty
(This is our Infidelity Repair community)
Each Skool community is capped at 100 couples max to keep the space focused, personal, and protected.
Smaller breakout groups are sometimes offered inside each community for couples who want deeper engagement — but all group work starts within the main community.
All Eye Am Nine Skool communities follow the same rhythm, no matter which one you join:
One 90-minute live session each week (4 per month), focused on teaching, reflection, and real-time engagement
One 30-minute check-in every Friday, where couples share wins, acknowledge challenges, and emotionally reset before the weekend
Ongoing access to your private Skool community forum, where members connect, support each other, and stay grounded between sessions
💸 SKOOL MEMBERS GET MORE
Your membership doesn’t just include group access — it unlocks exclusive pricing across Eye Am Nine services:
Private one-on-one couples sessions are reduced from $150 to just $90
All workshops are significantly discounted — for example, a workshop normally priced at $299 is only $200 for active Skool members
These savings are available for as long as your community membership is active.
Just click the community that matches what you’re currently working through:
👉 Why We Fight So Damn Much — for communication issues, conflict repair, and general relationship struggles
👉 Sex Stopped. Resentment Started. It Got Complicated. — for couples navigating intimacy, desire mismatch, or physical/emotional disconnection
👉 They Cheated. You Stayed. Now What? — for couples working through betrayal and rebuilding trust after infidelity
Once you’re inside, you’ll receive access to live sessions, Friday check-ins, community posts, and the ongoing support structure unique to that specific journey.
If you’re not sure which one fits, fill out the form at the bottom of the page — we’ll help you find your best starting point.
That’s the goal — to grow beyond intensive repair.
Eye Am Nine’s official Skool communities launch in March 2026. In late 2027, we’ll offer a low-maintenance membership option for couples who no longer need weekly support but want to stay connected.
That future “Maintenance Community” will include:
One live session per month
Ongoing forum access
Continued eligibility for Skool member discounts on 1:1 sessions
A relaxed pace focused on sustainability, not repair
It will be available for just $9/month, and only to those who’ve previously completed Skool membership.
Private Couples Sessions — Focused, Flexible, Personal
One-on-one time to slow down, unpack, and rebuild.
Questions? We’ve Got You.
These are private, 60-minute virtual sessions designed specifically for couples who want focused, personalized support to work through communication breakdowns, emotional disconnection, intimacy challenges, or high-conflict cycles.
The standard rate is $150 per session.
However, if you are an active member of any Skool group, you receive a discounted rate of $90 per session as part of your membership benefit.
No — couples can book sessions at any time, with or without a Skool membership. Skool members just receive additional savings.
You can book directly using this link:
Book Now
You can also access this link from:
Any page that mentions “One-on-One Sessions”
The top navigation menu under “Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT”
Once you choose your time, you’ll receive a confirmation and follow-up instructions by email.
Premarital Intensive — One Day, Real Depth
Build a solid foundation before you say “I do.”
Questions? We’ve Got You.
This is a one-day, virtual intensive designed for engaged or seriously committed couples who want to build a strong foundation for their future. It’s more than just premarital prep — it’s real relationship work designed to help you connect deeper, prepare better, and avoid long-term patterns that lead to emotional exhaustion or conflict.
Throughout the day, you’ll work through a guided workbook and engage in focused discussions on essential topics like:
Communication & Conflict Management
Personality Differences & Partner Expectations
Financial Management & Shared Goals
Quality Time & Leisure Activities
Sexuality, Affection & Intimacy
Family, Friends & Boundary Setting
Spiritual Beliefs & Value Alignment
Relationship Roles & Daily Responsibilities
Parenting, Children & Future Planning
You’ll also have the option to add the official couples assessment for deeper insight into your dynamics.
This intensive is ideal for couples who want to do more than just plan a wedding — they want to build a relationship that actually lasts.
This is a full-day experience led live by Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT. Throughout the day, you’ll:
Work through a premarital workbook
Cover topics like communication, intimacy, money, roles, family expectations, and long-term conflict prevention
Practice reflective conversations and learn the tools couples actually use to stay connected
The full-day intensive is $399
Skool members receive a discounted rate of $299
You can also add the official couples assessment for just $30 extra (optional)
No — this intensive is perfect for any couple in a serious relationship who wants to do the work before patterns become problems. Whether you’re newly engaged, married, or just planning for a committed future together, this experience will meet you where you are.
Workshops — Real-Time Guidance
Guided support, real practice, lasting change.
Questions? We’ve Got You.
Each session is 90 minutes and includes live teaching, practice, and Q&A.
Total duration depends on the program:
Why We Fight → 6 weeks
Sexual Intimacy Repair → 12 weeks
Infidelity Repair → 16 weeks
Yes. These workshops are designed for couples to attend together. The work is most effective when both people are part of the same change process.
If your partner isn’t ready yet or you’d like individual guidance before joining as a couple, please reach out. We’ll help you find the right next step or refer you to individual support options.
That’s a great fit. These workshops complement therapy by helping you practice what you learn in real time — turning insight into action between sessions.
Traditional therapy often focuses on insight. Workshops focus on practice. Each week, you’ll learn structured tools and communication skills you can use immediately. The format helps couples experience small, consistent progress instead of waiting for breakthroughs.
All workshops are personally led by Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT & Relationship Expert in live, small-group sessions designed for real-time guidance and feedback.
No. All sessions are private and confidential. To protect participant trust and emotional safety, recordings are never shared.
You’ll receive guided reflection prompts and summaries to help you stay aligned until the next live session.
That’s okay — and expected. These workshops are guided with care and compassion. Emotional moments aren’t disruptions; they’re opportunities for healing and understanding.
Every couple moves at their own pace. Some notice shifts within the first few weeks; others take longer as trust and rhythm rebuild. What matters most is showing up, using the tools, and practicing consistently.
If you complete the full workshop and still feel unsure about your next step, reach out. We’ll help you explore whether another round, private coaching, or deeper therapeutic work might help you continue growing.
Workshops are eligible for a full refund within 14 days of purchase, as long as the workshop hasn’t started.
Once the first live session begins, refunds are not available due to limited group size and reserved seating.
Downloaded products (ebooks or digital workbooks) are non-refundable, since immediate access is provided upon purchase.
If something unexpected happens, contact us — we’ll do our best to explore credit or transfer options.
Yes. We accept Affirm, Afterpay, and Klarna so you can pay over time in a way that fits your budget. You’ll see these options at checkout when you register.
Ebooks — Your First Step
Start small, go deep.
Questions? We’ve Got You.
No. Many people begin solo. When one person learns to repair differently, the whole relationship starts to shift.
No — but they’re therapeutic. They give you structure, insight, and language designed by a licensed therapist to use right away.
They’re a great starting point on their own, or they can be integrated into your ongoing work with a therapist to deepen understanding and progress between sessions.
Start with the one that speaks to what you’re struggling with most as a couple — whether it’s constant conflict, distance in intimacy, or rebuilding after betrayal.
Each book can stand on its own, but together they form a pathway that helps you and your partner move from understanding to real repair.
You can also pair your ebook with a live workshop to walk through the tools together and get professional support along the way.
Yes. The printed versions are available on Amazon. Just search Sharion N.A. Phelps to see all titles currently in print.
What’s the difference between the ebook and the printed workbook?
Ebooks are designed for clarity and reflection — simple explanations and tools you can start right away.
Printed workbooks include more space for notes and exercises, making them perfect for deeper processing or couples working together.
Instantly. You’ll get an email link to download your PDF immediately after purchase.
Yes — when you use it and follow the prompts and tools inside. The couples who see the biggest change aren’t perfect; they’re consistent. Small shifts, honest reflection, and practicing what’s in the guide can completely change how you communicate, reconnect, and rebuild trust.
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I’m Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT, and Relationship Expert. Repair takes time, but you don’t have to do it alone.
Start with what feels doable — read, reflect, or show up live. Each step builds momentum toward the connection you both still want.