Sex stopped. Resentment started. It got complicated. Now what?
When the intimacy fades, everything else follows. This is for couples who want to reconnect — not just physically, but emotionally and relationally.
Explore Your OptionsReconnecting Starts With Repair
Sexual avoidance. Pain during sex. Performance anxiety. Overuse of porn. Emotional disconnection. You’re not alone. This experience helps you unlearn shame, talk honestly, and rebuild closeness — without pressure.
What to Expect
This isn’t about fixing your sex life in a day. It’s about understanding what changed, why it changed, and how to reconnect without pressure, blame, or fear. Most couples who go through this process — especially those without major unresolved relationship trauma — begin to experience emotional and physical intimacy again by the end of the 12 weeks. It also works beautifully alongside therapy, one-on-one sessions, or after completing Why We Fight So Damn Much.
Week-by-Week Repair
12 weeks of gentle but focused emotional and physical reconnection work.
Real Talk, No Shame
We name the hard stuff — avoidance, performance anxiety, past hurt — and work through it together.
Therapy-Friendly
Use alongside your couples therapy or 1:1 support — or as a powerful first step before committing long-term.
Safe Reconnection
Our approach centers safety, mutual consent, and emotional readiness before sexual touch returns.
Ready to Reconnect?
If this sounds like what you’ve been needing — take the next step today. It’s gentle, private, and grounded in real repair work.
Facing Additional Roadblocks?
If you're navigating more specific challenges in your intimacy journey, we've got you covered. These optional resources provide focused support — and can be added to your core experience at any time. Each topic is also offered as a live workshop for couples who want to go deeper with guidance and community.
Erectile Dysfunction Support
Optional self-paced course and live class for men struggling with ED or performance anxiety — without shame or pressure.
Pelvic Pain / Vaginismus
Guided support and optional class for women experiencing pain, penetration issues, or body-based intimacy fears.
Porn & Masturbation Overuse
Tools and prompts for couples or individuals breaking compulsive habits and re-centering connection. Self-paced and live options available.
What’s Included
You don’t just get a course. You get layers of support — structured, optional, and guided.
Self-Paced Course
Learn in private, on your own schedule — with videos, prompts, and real exercises that work.
eBook Download
A supportive guide that covers the emotional and physical parts of intimacy in one easy-to-read format.
Live Presentation
A no-pressure, trust-building session to walk through the material, ask questions, and feel less alone.
12-Week Support Circle
A guided small group experience (up to 3 couples) to help you go deeper, together.
Private 1:1 Sessions (Optional)
For couples who want personalized attention alongside the course. Flexible scheduling available.
Want to Go Deeper?
If the included tools speak to you, consider adding live or private support. Every layer is built for where you are.
Pricing & Access Options
Choose the level of support that fits where you are. Start with the core bundle, then add deeper guidance if needed — all priced to honor your healing without overwhelming your wallet.
Core Bundle
Includes the self-paced course, eBook, and live presentation.
$147
12-Week Support Circle
Optional small group repair with up to 3 couples. Deep, structured emotional support.
$499
Private 1:1 Sessions
Personalized, therapist-led sessions available alongside your course.
$165 / 45–50 minutes
Roadblock Add-On Bundle
Get all 3 self-paced modules — Erectile Dysfunction, Pelvic Pain, and Porn Overuse — at a reduced rate.
$77 (bundle)
Live Classes for Add-Ons
Each Roadblock topic is also taught live throughout the year. Join a community and learn together.
$97 per class
You Deserve This
Not sure where to begin? Just start. We’ll help you find your way from wherever you are now.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if we haven’t had sex in months (or years)?
That’s exactly why this exists. We help you break the silence, understand what changed, and take pressure off the table while working toward reconnection.
Do we need to be in therapy to take this?
No. This course works beautifully as a standalone process, or as a supplement to couples therapy. Many use it as a “bridge” to decide if long-term therapy is needed.
Is this appropriate for trauma or infidelity?
This program is not designed to resolve infidelity or complex trauma. If those are active concerns, we recommend beginning with Why We Fight So Damn Much or enrolling in private sessions.
What if we disagree on whether this is a problem?
It's common for one partner to be more impacted than the other. The course provides shared language and exercises to open honest conversation, without blame or pressure.
How is this different from the Infidelity or Sexual Repair programs?
This series specifically addresses sexual disconnection without betrayal. If infidelity or deep emotional wounding is involved, our other programs may be more appropriate.
Important Disclaimer
This program is not a substitute for medical care. If you're experiencing symptoms like pain during sex, erectile difficulties, hormonal concerns, or prolonged dysfunction, we strongly recommend getting a full physical from a licensed gynecologist or urologist. This course can support your healing — but it is not medical advice or treatment.
Ready to Start Rebuilding?
Whether you’re testing the waters, walking through therapy, or trying to reconnect on your own — you don’t have to figure it out alone. Join us inside the process that’s helped dozens of couples start again, with care.