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I Get Off Then Log Off: Cumming Without Connection

When Pleasure Becomes a Habit, Not a Connection

You didn’t plan to drift this far. But somewhere between the scrolling, the stress, and the “just one more time,” connection turned into coping.

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I GET OFF, THEN LOG OFF.: CUMMING WITHOUT CONNECTION: WHY WE CHOOSE PORN OVER PEOPLE.

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Reflection Prompt: While You Listen

Take a few minutes to reflect as you listen:

Want to Keep Listening?

Every chapter builds on this one — walking you step-by-step through what happens next and how to rebuild what’s been lost.

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It’s not just about porn. It’s about the silence that follows. The guilt, the secret tabs, the distance that grows when you can’t explain why your body feels alive online but numb in real life.

Most people don’t overuse porn because they’re broken — they do it because it’s a predictable escape. A moment of control when everything else feels out of reach..

When Connection Turns Into Coping

You tell yourself it’s harmless.

You promise it’s the last time.

But the emptiness that follows gets harder to ignore.

What started as stress relief turned into a substitute for intimacy — a digital version of closeness that always ends in silence.

Most people don’t turn to porn because they don’t care about connection. They turn to it because they don’t know how to repair what feels lost in real life.

⭐⭐⭐⭐“I finally understood why I kept going back even when I didn’t want to.” – T.L.

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ “This made me feel human again, not broken.” – J.P..

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐“It helped me start talking to my partner without shame or defensiveness.” – M.K.

What You’ll Discover Inside

I’m Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT.
For years, I’ve helped men and couples navigate the hidden struggles behind porn overuse — the guilt, avoidance, and emotional distance it leaves behind.

What I know is this: it’s not about porn.
It’s about what’s happening underneath — the loneliness, pressure, and self-judgment that make connection feel too hard.

That’s why I created this ebook — to help you move from escape to engagement, from guilt to understanding, and from isolation to real intimacy.

Ready to Stop Escaping and Start Connecting?

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