THEY CHEATED. YOU STAYED. NOW WHAT?
Betrayal Shakes Everything. But Healing Starts Here.
If you feel stuck, unsure, or emotionally drained…these $9 guides give you direction in minutes.
Not ready to talk out loud yet? You’re embarrassed, overwhelmed, or just want to try self help first. That’s why this $9 guide exists — so you can start healing quietly, privately, at home.
When Betrayal Changes Everything
This isn’t about blame. It’s about learning how to heal—slowly, honestly, and together.
It’s not just what happened — it’s the silence, the questions, and the slow unraveling of trust. One of you is still reeling. The other is unsure how to make things right. Days blur into nights filled with distance, doubt, and painful overthinking.
Here’s What You’ll Gain:
Clarity and calm → Understand why your mind and body feel stuck in replay mode.
Boundaries that protect healing → Learn how to ask the right questions without losing yourself.
Safety before forgiveness → Rebuild emotional and physical trust at a pace that honors both of you.
Tools for real repair → Practice step-by-step communication that moves you forward, not backward.
- Honest hope → Because repair isn’t instant—but it is possible.
WHAT AM I GETTING?
Real Relationship Relief, Created by a Licensed Couples Therapist. For just $9, get both the e-book and audiobook designed to help you rebuild trust, communication, and closeness.
What You’ll Learn in Weeks 1–8: Finding Steady Ground
1. The Shock That Follows
Why betrayal feels like trauma and what your nervous system needs first.
2. The Replay Loop
How to stop searching for details that never bring peace.
3. Am I Crazy or Is This Normal?
Understanding trauma responses after infidelity—and why you’re not losing your mind.
4. Safety Before Strategy
How to rebuild stability before rushing into solutions.
5. Talking Without Exploding
Learning to ask for truth and accountability without fueling more damage.
6. Boundaries, Transparency, and Consequences
What real rebuilding requires—and how to hold each other accountable.
7. Forgiveness Isn’t the Goal
Why forgiveness is a process, not a demand.
8. Naming What Hurts
How to process pain without weaponizing it.
What You’ll Learn in Weeks 9–16: Rebuilding Connection Redefining It
9. When One Person Wants to Stay and the Other Isn’t Sure
How to find clarity without rushing to a decision.
10. Rebuilding Emotional Safety
Creating conditions where honesty and vulnerability can grow again.
11. Physical Intimacy After Betrayal
Approaching closeness with care, consent, and awareness.
12. What It Means to Recommit
Building new agreements based on truth, not fear.
13. If Only One Stays
How to heal and move forward alone with dignity and peace.
14.The Reflection You Deserve
What this process teaches you about strength, boundaries, and love.
16. Relearning Intimacy Through Trust
How to rebuild physical and emotional closeness after betrayal — not as proof, but as connection.
(This step focuses on touch, communication, and consent — integrating the body’s readiness with the heart’s.)
17. Rebuilding the Story You’re Becoming
How to integrate what happened into a new relationship identity — one built on truth, not the illusion of perfection.
(This step gives closure — honoring the pain while rewriting the shared story with intention.)
🎧 Audiobook Access
You don’t have to wait to start reconnecting. When you purchase the eBook, you’ll automatically receive free streaming access to the entire audiobook — so you can listen anytime, anywhere.
- ✔️It’s private. No one needs to know what you’re working through.
- ✔️It’s simple. A clear first step that doesn’t overwhelm you.
- ✔️ It’s only $9. Real help without therapy prices.
REPAIR TAKING LONGER THAN EXPECTED JOIN A WORKSHOP
Wish you had someone guiding you through the hard parts?
Our eBooks give you the first steps—the tools to begin making change. That’s why we offer dedicated live workshops, personally led by Sharion Phelps, LMFT/ Relationship Expert and founder of EyeAm9.
In each session, we move beyond reading into real practice—walking step by step through the material, answering your questions in real time, and giving you the confidence to apply these tools in your relationship.
They Cheated. You Stayed. Now What?
A 6-week journey of steady healing after betrayal. Understand the trauma response, rebuild boundaries and safety, and learn how to communicate, rebuild—or release—with clarity and strength.
Redefine Trust
I’m Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT.
For years, I’ve helped couples and individuals navigate the painful process of betrayal recovery — from affairs, secrets, and emotional disconnection.
What I know is this: healing after infidelity doesn’t begin with forgiveness.
It begins with honesty, boundaries, and the courage to face the truth together.
That’s why I created this ebook — to give you the same tools I use in sessions so you can start rebuilding stability, clarity, and confidence at your own pace.
Not everyone feels ready to talk about their relationship openly. These guides let you begin quietly, at your own pace.
The emotions around intimacy issues, betrayal, distance, or communication struggles can be difficult to voice at first. This gives you a space to process before speaking to anyone.
Healing shouldn’t depend on a schedule. You can take these first steps anytime, anywhere.
Therapy is valuable, but the price can feel like a barrier when you’re already stressed. This gives you an affordable way — just $9 — to start right now.
Sometimes the pain feels too heavy to sit face-to-face with someone yet. These guides offer a gentler entry point.
Many couples know something’s wrong but keep delaying the conversation. This helps you begin facing things together, without pressure.
Many couples prefer to attempt repair privately before seeking support. These guides walk you through the first steps with structure and care.
Through guided exercises and discussions, couples gain valuable insights into their own needs and their partner’s, helping to cultivate a deeper, more fulfilling relationship.
Work, kids, and responsibilities make it hard to carve out time for deeper conversations. These steps fit into your real life.
Most couples want help but feel stuck or uncertain. These guides give you a clear, calm, therapist-guided entry point.