They Cheated. You Stayed. Now What?
- THEY CHEATED. YOU STAYED. NOW WHAT ?
This is a relationship repair experience for couples
Repair experience for couples who are living in the aftermath of betrayal and trying to figure out how to move forward. Sharion designed this for couples who are in a relationship after infidelity.
The cheating may have stopped, but the damage didn’t. Trust feels fragile. Conversations feel loaded. Everything is different — even when you’re trying to move forward.
You might still love your partner and still feel angry. Still want the relationship and still feel hurt. Still trying, but don’t feel okay. Some days you want to rebuild. Other days you don’t even know what you’re rebuilding toward.
This space is for couples who stayed — not because it’s easy, but because walking away didn’t feel like the only answer.
What This Work Focuses On
This work is about helping couples slow things down and deal with the real emotional impact of betrayal — not just the event itself, but what it did to trust, safety, communication, and connection. It’s about creating space for accountability, honest conversations, and clearer direction, whether that means rebuilding together or understanding what you need moving forward.
TOPICS THAT ARE COVERED
- SHAME, GUILT, AND EMBARRASSMENT / WHO’S CARRYING WHAT?
- IS IT CHEATING IF THERE WAS NO SEX?
- “I SAID I’M SORRY” — WHY THAT STILL DOESN’T FEEL LIKE ENOUGH
- WHAT FORGIVENESS ACTUALLY MEANS (AND WHAT IT DOESN’T)
- LIVING WITH TRIGGERS, QUESTIONS, AND SUDDEN EMOTIONAL SWINGS
- WHEN ONE PARTNER WANTS TO MOVE ON AND THE OTHER ISN’T READY
- REAL ACCOUNTABILITY
- WHEN ONE PARTNER WANTS TO MOVE ON AND THE OTHER ISN’T READY
- YOU SAID YOU FORGAVE ME-WHY WE STILL TALKING ABOUT IT
- AND MUCH MORE...
If this sounds familiar…
You think about the betrayal more than you want to admit
Trust feels shaky, even when things seem calm
You have good days and then suddenly feel right back in the pain
You don’t know how to ask questions without starting another fight
One of you wants to move on, the other still needs to talk about it
You’re trying to stay, but you’re not sure how to actually heal
Staying doesn’t mean you’re okay.
It means you’re still trying to figure out what’s possible.
Ready to Focus on You?
- ALL SERVICES ARE VIRTUAL (VIA ZOOM)
THEY CHEATED. YOU STAYED. NOW WHAT ?
- HOW YOU CAN START
- SKOOL Membership $25/MONTH
- 1hr Couples Session w/ Sharion Phelps $150 per couple
- Small Group Topic focus 6 week workshops $299 per couple
- Digital Products $9 per download
Starting at $153 180 with an assessment with two free follow-up sessions
Who It’s For
Premarital couples preparing for marriage.
Note
Which One Is Right for You?Choose Skool if you want ongoing support, variety, and help maintaining your relationship over timeChoose a Workshop if you want concentrated work on a specific issue and clear forward movementSome couples choose one. Some choose both.
Skool — Ongoing Relationship Support
Skool is an ongoing space for couples who want support, guidance, and real conversations over time. It includes weekly 90-minute live sessions with teaching, discussion, and open Q&A, along with a 30-minute Friday check-in to talk through wins, challenges, and mindset before heading into the weekend. Topics center on navigating life after betrayal — rebuilding trust, managing emotional reactions, and figuring out how to move forward together.ool is designed for both repair and maintenance, helping couples navigate the ups and downs as they happen, not just during crisis moments.
Workshops — Focused Relationship Intensives
Workshops are focused, time-limited experiences designed to help couples get traction fast. These are 6-week guided programs that stay centered on one specific issue the entire time, allowing couples to go deeper without distraction. Each workshop focuses on a single area, such as communication patterns, sexual intimacy repair, or infidelity repair. Workshops are best for couples who want intensive focus and faster results in one clearly defined part of their relationship.
One-on-One Couples Sessions
One-on-one couples sessions are designed for partners who want private, personalized support focused on what’s happening in their relationship — not a group setting. These 1-hour sessions offer direct guidance tailored to both partners, creating space to slow conversations down, clarify what’s going wrong, and work through challenges together. This option is ideal for couples navigating sensitive or complex issues, those who prefer privacy and flexibility, or couples who want support fully centered on their specific relationship. One-on-one sessions can stand alone or be used alongside Skool or workshops for additional support.
Community Access & Integrity
Each Skool community under Eye Am Nine is designed for a specific type of relationship repair — whether that’s infidelity, intimacy, or communication and conflict.
These are exclusive spaces created for people actively working through that particular issue. When you sign up, you’re joining a group of people who truly get it — because they’re going through it too.
Sharion takes these boundaries seriously. This is not about exclusion — it’s about protection. These spaces are intentionally designed to be empathetic, nonjudgmental, and grounded in shared experience.
Joining a group that doesn’t align with your current struggle undermines the trust and safety of that space. Anyone found violating this policy will be removed and will not be allowed to access any further services.
These communities are built for real healing and repair — not just conversation, but actual change. To protect that, we honor the weight of what people are carrying and commit to keeping each space focused, honest, and safe.
Ready to Redefine Trust?
I’m Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT and Relationship Expert.
After thousands of hours helping couples and individuals navigate betrayal, I know the pain of staying when everything in you wants to run. You don’t need to rush forgiveness—you need steady support and tools that help you rebuild from the inside out.
Frequently Asked Questions
I'm the betraying partner — is this just going to be about everything I did wrong?
No. While accountability is part of the work, this isn’t about blame. It’s about healing — for both partners. You’ll both have space to feel, process, and move forward with clarity.
What if we're still fighting all the time?
Then you're in the right place. This series helps you name those fights, slow them down, and rebuild emotional regulation tools while working through betrayal recovery.
Will we be pushed to stay together?
Not at all. Whether you stay together or not is your choice. This work is about repair — and helping you make that decision with intention and emotional honesty.
We already did couples therapy — will this help?
This is a structured experience focused on emotional repair and rebuilding trust. Many couples use it alongside other support systems or as a next step after therapy.
Can I do this without my partner?
You can join the self-paced course or attend 1:1 sessions. However, live support circles require both partners to participate.
Take the First Step Today
Love doesn’t wait—neither should you.