Sex Stopped. Resentment Started. Now What
Rebuild Closeness—Gently, on Purpose, Together...
When Intimacy Slows Down, Everything Changes. You both want help, but don’t want to talk about it yet…start here for just $9.
Not ready to talk out loud yet? You’re embarrassed, overwhelmed, or just want to try self help first. That’s why this $9 guide exists — so you can start healing quietly, privately, at home..
What Happens When sexual and emotional intimacy Slows Down ?
It’s not just about sex—it’s about the silence, the shutdown, and the slow drift into feeling like roommates instead of lovers.
Maybe one of you avoids. The other feels pressured. Nights pass with nothing said, and weeks slip by without touch.This isn’t about blame. It’s about learning how to reset.
Here’s What You’ll Gain:
Language for honesty → Learn how to talk about sex without shame or shutdown.
Step-by-step reconnection → Move from nonsexual touch to erotic connection at a pace that works for both.
Supportive scheduling → Build intentional moments that honor readiness and remove pressure.
Lasting momentum → Create a rhythm that feels doable, not demanding.
WHAT AM I GETTING?
Real Relationship Relief, Created by a Licensed Couples Therapist. For just $9, get both the e-book and audiobook designed to help you rebuild trust, communication, and closeness.
What You’ll Learn in Weeks 1–6: Rebuilding the Groundwork
1. We Haven’t Touched in a While
Why physical reach fades, and how to rebuild connection gently.
2. What Shut Us Down?
Understanding invisible effort, resentment, and the quiet shutdowns that kill desire.
3. I Don’t Know What I Want Anymore
How stress, shame, and overload confuse desire—and what to do instead.
4. When I Don’t Know How to Talk About Sex
Finding the words when silence feels safer.
5. My Body Remembers What My Mind Forgot
Trauma, nervous system responses, and how to stay present.
6. When Sex Becomes a Chore, Not a Choice
Why obligation kills intimacy and how to rebuild honesty
HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT NOW. WHY WAIT?
What You’ll Learn in Weeks 7–12: Reigniting the Connection
7. The Setup Is the Solution
Structure, prep, and creating conditions where sex can actually happen.
8. Rebuilding Rhythm After a Dry Spell
Practical tools to restart, even if it’s been months (or years).
9. When I Need You to Lead Sometimes
Balancing initiation so one partner doesn’t carry all the weight.
10. Intimacy Mapping
Designing a rhythm that lasts.
11. When It Actually Happens—Now What?
Protecting momentum and keeping connection consistent.
12. Final Reflection
The practices and truths you’ll carry forward.
HAVE THE INTIMACY YOU WANT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP NOW. WHY WAIT?
🎧 Audiobook Access
You don’t have to wait to start reconnecting. When you purchase the eBook, you’ll automatically receive free streaming access to the entire audiobook — so you can listen anytime, anywhere.
Companion Guides for Common Roadblocks
Not every couple struggles with the same thing.
That’s why we created companion books—simple, first-step guides that focus on the most common barriers to sexual connection.
These books can be used on their own or alongside the main Sexual Intimacy Reset guide.
- Each one offers a gentle starting place, breaking down shame and giving you tools you can use right away.
The companion books cover common barriers like:
Painful intimacy (such as vaginismus or pelvic pain)
Erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety
Porn and masturbation cycles that pull energy away from the relationship
If performance anxiety or ED has been holding you back, this guide helps you take the pressure off and rebuild confidence step by step.
If porn feels easier than real connection, this guide helps you break the cycle, reduce guilt, and turn back toward your partner.
If intimacy feels painful or your body shuts down, this gentle guide shows you how to understand what’s happening and begin reclaiming comfort and confidence.
LOOK INSIDE INTIMACY REPAIR COLLECTION
- ✔️It’s private. No one needs to know what you’re working through.
- ✔️It’s simple. A clear first step that doesn’t overwhelm you.
- ✔️ It’s only $9. Real help without therapy prices.
JOIN AN IMTIMACY REPAIR WORKSHOP AND GET UNSTUCK
Wish you had someone guiding you through the hard parts?
Our eBooks give you the first steps—the tools to begin making change. That’s why we offer dedicated live workshops, personally led by Sharion Phelps, LMFT/ Relationship Expert and founder of EyeAm9.
In each session, we move beyond reading into real practice—walking step by step through the material, answering your questions in real time, and giving you the confidence to apply these tools in your relationship.
When Touch Stops, Resentment Starts.
Over 6 weeks, rediscover emotional and physical closeness. We’ll explore desire, shutdown, and the nervous-system patterns that shape connection—then rebuild trust, rhythm, and pleasure step by step.
I’m Sharion N.A. Phelps, LMFT. For years, I’ve walked with couples through the quiet pain of sexual distance — where resentment builds, touch disappears, and partners begin to feel like strangers.
What I know is this: intimacy isn’t repaired through pressure or performance. It’s rebuilt through repair, safety, and small consistent steps.
That’s why I created this eBook — to give you the same tools I use in sessions so you can begin repairing intimacy at home, at your own pace.
Not everyone feels ready to talk about their relationship openly. These guides let you begin quietly, at your own pace.
The emotions around intimacy issues, betrayal, distance, or communication struggles can be difficult to voice at first. This gives you a space to process before speaking to anyone.
Healing shouldn’t depend on a schedule. You can take these first steps anytime, anywhere.
Therapy is valuable, but the price can feel like a barrier when you’re already stressed. This gives you an affordable way — just $9 — to start right now.
Sometimes the pain feels too heavy to sit face-to-face with someone yet. These guides offer a gentler entry point.
Many couples know something’s wrong but keep delaying the conversation. This helps you begin facing things together, without pressure.
Many couples prefer to attempt repair privately before seeking support. These guides walk you through the first steps with structure and care.
Through guided exercises and discussions, couples gain valuable insights into their own needs and their partner’s, helping to cultivate a deeper, more fulfilling relationship.
Work, kids, and responsibilities make it hard to carve out time for deeper conversations. These steps fit into your real life.
Most couples want help but feel stuck or uncertain. These guides give you a clear, calm, therapist-guided entry point.